Profile torquemada: Stand in the darkness to see the light

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Would Describe Myself As I have just escaped from a 12 year relationship and finally I can feel the wind under my wings again.

I have a wicked sense of humour and there's very little I don't know about horror, fantasy and all things darkly fantastic.

I'm not a posseur, I'm not some saddo who thinks he's Lestat and I don't want you nourish me with your life force ;-)

I'm just looking for people who are comfortable with not being mainstream and who are fun to be around for a while. Plus everyone knows that Goths are really the coolest kids (even at South Park Elementary) and that Goth girls are the hottest on the planet.

I've always said that my 'type' is tall, blonde and willowy, so it's ironic that I've just spent the past 12 years with a short 19-stone brunette. What I hope this makes clear is that, for me, looks aren't the most important thing but personality most certainly is.

I'm looking for a woman who has a good sense of humour, who is kind and caring, and who is confident and experienced enough to know what she wants. I've had enough of people who play games and lie, so honesty, openness and trustworthiness are paramount.

It also helps if you like blues and rock music, eating popcorn and snogging on the back row of the cinema, dancing wildy in the rain, will at least entertain the possibility of being seen on the back of a Harley and won't freak if I drag you to the odd science fiction convention.

I'm a big film buff (particulary Fantasy, Horror and Sci-Fi) so I'm afraid it's a case of 'love me, love my HD Widescreen TV and DVD collection' - and it's true that I can speak a smattering of Elvish and Klingon (so sue me) - and I have been known to get tearful (in a manly way) at old B&W movies.
Sign Sagittarius

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Average
My Height Is 5' 10 (1.78 m)
My Eyes Are Blue
My Ethnicity Is European
My Marital Situation Is Separated
I Have Kids Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids No
My Best Feature Is Eyes
Body Art Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is Salt And Pepper
I Have One Or More Of These No pets
Willing To Relocate No

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is Full-time
My Speciality Is Computers / Electronic
My Job Title Is Project Manager
I Make This Much In A Year $45,000USD To $59,999USD
I Live Alone
At Home Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - One Or Two

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Class Clown
My Social Behavior Is Observant
My Interest And Hobbies Are Reading, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Family, Dining, Cooking, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Trying New Things, The Movies, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be Exciting, adventurous, memorable, romantic, worth repeating.
I've Always Wanted To Try Everything
My Friends Describe Me As Being Someone They Want To Be

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services Never
My Political Views Are Liberal
My Goal In Life Is Find true love and finish the book I'm writing - but not necessarily in that order.
My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Action, Science Fiction, Horror
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Rock, Metal, Classical, Blues, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read Comic, Fantasy, Horror, Science, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is A dinner date, a gig, an all-night horror movie marathon, romantic days and passionate nights

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For? Honesty, compassion, truthfulness - and elegance would be a bonus
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed