Profile StealTheNight: My Mockingbird Sings

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

First name Gary
I Can Speak English
I Would Describe Myself As My name is Gary and I’ve lived in the greater Orlando area since 2019. I grew up in NYC, went to high school in San Francisco and lived in Salt Lake City for 15 years before landing here in Florida.

I’ve tried dating sites and the results are typically awkward shots in the dark lol. So I thought why not give something new a try to see how it goes.

As for things about me more personally I love animals probably more than I love people at this point (haha) and have 8 (!) cats at home who are my babies. I enjoy nerdy stuff like theme parks and video games, technology. I can go out or veg at home.

As for music I grew up on Elvis Costello, Devo, and general ‘College Rock’ as it was called at the time. I loved Depeche Mode in my teens after going through my KMFDM phase. But today I’m rediscovering old things, things I missed entirely and new stuff I’ve never heard before. I recently listened to Cab Calloway for example, so that’s a pretty diverse spectrum.

For work I do a typical day job, by Florida standards. By night… … I am not Batman (at night I’m asleep actually lol) but my hobbies include films, and I developed some lower budget stuff that really doesn’t pay enough that I don’t need a day job. One was based on a video game! But I definitely need some different hobbies! Maybe golf?

Finally, something recently spoken by actress Courtney Henlegger on her retiring from acting after 20 years of similar struggles as mine in a loop really stuck out to me as powerful, motivating stuff to stop being hindered by the confines of anything we place limits on regarding ourselves that affect our ultimate output:

“What if we choose to believe we have the power?” she wrote. “What if we had it all along? What if we have been handing our power away because we have been told that this is how it is done. We lose perspective on our own machine, because we are convinced we need another. We wait for power to be bestowed upon us. We sign up for the gauntlets. We run the gauntlet, to prove our worth. To earn our place. To be crowned the power. What if we never needed to run the gauntlet? What if we are the gauntlet?”
Sign Cancer

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Slim
My Height Is 5' 11 (1.8 m)
My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is Divorced
I Have Kids No
I Want Kids Not Sure
My Best Feature Is Eyes
Body Art Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is Bald
I Have One Or More Of These Cat
Willing To Relocate No

More about him

What genre of music do you enjoy most? Industrial
What is your favorite band? Leaether Strip, Razed In Black, Rey Pila
Who is your favorite writer? Raymond Carver, me
Who is your favorite character from literature? Holden Caulfield
What is the best site about Goth culture? Who knows anymore, it’s very corny in the mainstream here in the U.S.

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is Some College
My Current Employment Status Is Full-time
My Speciality Is Art / Music / Literature
My Job Title Is Character Attendant
I Make This Much In A Year $30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live Alone, With Pet(s)
At Home All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink No

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Outcast
My Social Behavior Is Reserved, Boisterous, Observant, Friendly, Flirtatious, Dark, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are Dining, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Gambling, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Going Shopping, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Going To A Casino, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be Theme park perhaps? Movie? Museum?
I've Always Wanted To Try I do not know lol
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Cool, Obscure, Goofy, I Don't Have Any Friends

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Agnostic
I Attend Services Never
My Political Views Are Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is Become independently wealthy
My Kind Of Humor Is Campy, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick, Raunchy

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Horror, Thriller, I'm A Movie Actor, Adult
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Electronic, Pop, Vacuum Cleaner Noises, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read News, Computers, Fantasy, Fiction, Horror, Music, Mystery, Satire, Supernatural
My Idea Of Fun Is Being with my favorite person

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Wit, Flirtatiousness, Power, Oddities, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For? All the things
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Date, Intimate, Committed